I’m in Manhattan in a small hotel room that I’m sharing with my dad. I treated him and my brother Jeff, who lives here in New York, to the Yankee game last night and saw our Angels win 1-0.
I over splurged on tickets right behind homeplate. My first (and probably last) frivolous purchase since the Ninja really took off.
But you know what? This is all about memory creation. My dad kept saying he felt like Ned Beatty.
He meant like Ned Beatty as the dad in Rudy entering Notre Dame stadium, but my bro and I kept joking that people would think he meant Ned Beatty in Deliverance. *squeal*
Ahem.
Anyway, Dad was touched. So was my brother. This is the first time the three of us have really hung out together. I’m even trying to remember back to when I was a kid. Dad and I did stuff and Jeff and I did stuff, but never the three of us.
I asked Dad about this at brunch today and he said that our sister Debbie would’ve freaked. Maybe that’s true. It’s probably also due to my parent’s strictly egalitarian method of raising us,where they tried to be as equal as possible with their love and attention.
So it’s nice just spending time with the three of us. It’s nice peeling back surface of Dad especially, since he can get stuck into infinite loops of surface conversation. When you are forced to engage him continually he surprises and delights with insights about our childhood and his life.
I have a feeling that this trip will be remembered for a while by all of us.
Today we went to the Guttenberg, another thing Dad wanted to see. On display was the art of Louise Bourgeios. An artist that I was not familiar to prior. The main gallery is just as spectacular as it seems in photos.
Now we’re napping/writing/praticing the flute. I’ll let you figure out who’s doing what.
Pictures will posted next week when I return.




5 Comments
August 2, 2008 at 12:03 pm
That’s the important stuff.
August 2, 2008 at 12:34 pm
that’s so cool. can you imagine the feeling you’ll have when you kid does something like that for you. it’s that “i was worried for a moment, but i did good!”
congrats!
August 2, 2008 at 3:38 pm
It’s nice to hear good things about father son relationships. Mine were few and far between with my Dad. I have a video tribute lined up for next spring.
And those Angels starting to make some national news, quieting a Cubs Red Sox World Series.
August 3, 2008 at 12:32 pm
damn it! you made me cry.
i’m so glad you are having such a great time. i’m so glad you did this.
August 4, 2008 at 11:55 am
I remember an old pic you had posted with your dad. It really showed how close you are. Glad to hear things are going well in the places that matter most.